Art by James Christiansen; compilation by me.
In the grip of deep pain, we can’t see into situations as clearly as we normally do no matter how strong we think we are. When we are in pain, no matter the cause, we go into survival mode. We have to consciously focus on things that generally come easy to us.
You are a Star. Honing our senses is a big key in learning how you heal your soul pain. Accepting and in enacting Real change gets you there much faster.
Become a detective and look deeply at the issues at hand and find what is really going on.